The Dry Vagina

First of all, the Female Vagina is always wet, which will surprise some men now, since they believe they are needed for that purpose, but sorry guys, you are not. The Liquid which keeps the Vagina smooth is called Flour Genitals and protects the Vagina of Pathogens. It is a milky white color liquid. The Liquid produces a vaginal discharge of two to five gram, which is to explain for some male readers the reason why women even not having their ovum explosion time, have to wear thin panty liners. Male Motorbike drivers know what it means to have a wet panty, not a very nice feeling, but Females at least realize it. Male Motorbike Drivers only than it’s too late and it’s more the five gram.
A dry Vagina makes women easier affected for infections and Inflammations. A color change of the Liquid can be the result of inflammations. This leads to the loss of the Libido of the woman and pain while having sexual intercourse. She will have a burning feeling and also itching feeling which is in that case not good.
So guys now listen up! How to make a Vagina wet: Via local physical and psychological sexual stimulation, yes remember the biggest sexual organ of a woman are not her Boobs, it’s her brain, and sometimes also in measurements. Via the right professional stimulation by the man, the other woman or object the blood circulation of the Vagina will be increased. That is important, because the Vagina, surprise does not have own glands. This liquid which will be produced like that is called Transudate, for the interested parties of you. The Transudate will be pressed out of the blood from pores like cleaves into the tissue. (Transudation)
For a smooth gliding process the bartholinischen and skeneschen pores in the vagina atrium, send out a top up, which is the lubrication.
Like that in just seconds the Liquid Level in the Vagina tripled. As you can see, not just men are ready in seconds to move it, also women are.
But what is the reason for a dry Vagina? In most cases it’s a lack of blood circulation, the Menopause which reduces estrogen production, unbalance of the hormones. In this case we talk of the vagina atrophy. The skin will be also more vulnerable and can crack and tear easily. This can also happen especially while pregnancy and Lactation time, also hormones based contraceptive methods can cause the dryness. The list is long and also psychological reasons can be the fault for the Libido loss of a women, same like for a men, which can be caused of scares, stress, nervous, so same like for a man, but also strong reasons like Trauma, sexual abuse and mistreatment and also a strict sexual raising.
With other words it’s not always the man with a problem, against common believe if it comes to the Libido and sexual interaction, also the women has similar problems, sometimes even self-made, with extreme intimacy hygienic. Ladies, soap have nothing to do in this Area down there, the Vagina has a very well self-balanced cleaning system, and normal water and a neutral wash lotion for the outer side to clean in a gentle way is more than enough. Think about what comes in there, and how dirty this thing can be, sometimes you have even no idea where it all have been before, so your Vagina can deal with all that dirt, so no worries!
But Guys, please do not think that you are out of responsibility now, not all women with very dry eyes, mouth and dry vagina have the Sjoergen Syndrome and you should check if she is sick, it could be also that she cried her eyes out cause of you again and you again have not realized it.
Best for you all his to avoid dry sexual intercourse, no nicotine, alcohol, no tampon, glide crèmes, hormone free medication who helps against the dry vagina, baby oil (but don’t combine them with condoms) and if you are in your menopause, more sexual intercourse. Yes, that is correct more sexual intercourse and extend your sexual stimulation phase use phantasies which turn you on more, this can help to get your Libido and Vagina back on track.
So let’s go!

Having Sex Alone – Selfie

This is a Topic we all do not like to talk about so much and feel it’s embarrassing, masturbation. But for most Humans the first sexual experience comes via masturbation and self-stimulation and for some it will always be the only sexual experience.
To masturbate is normal and nothing wrong with it to do it. It is important for all Genders, before the Ladies try to push this Topic only to the men’s corner again. No my dear Ladies, you also do, you just would like to make it look like that only the men are so dirty and always think of sex. Which is partly true, men think more often about sex than women, because nature programmed them like that while women masturbate and think of sex too, but less frequently and depending on the time of the month and their testosterone level as we learned in earlier Chapters. 74% of the women and 90% of the men masturbate like there is no morning, what the others do, no clue, maybe finding themselves first while the rest enjoying themselves already.
What is the difference between men and women if they masturbate? Women also use the internet or their much better equipped Head cinema. Women also react on visual stimulation but lesser than a men. It’s not so much to see the phallus of a man, it’s more the feeling to have one inside. To believe that women touch their breasts the whole time or having a candlelight bath while they masturbate is more out of magazines and movies made for men and their phantasy support. In Real its same way dirty as for men. A woman thinks about different situations with their current partner, like having a session on the club toilette while full bladders banging angry at the dirty door with graffiti and while they banging from the inside back. Women also imagine having sexual intercourse with others, like celebrities or people they would never talk to in real. Women think of situations and things they would never do in real, that’s their stimulation. Women can have several orgasm in a short time like that, while a man is mostly satisfied after one or two times and throws away the Tissue and turns on the TV, if it’s not already on. While Masturbating, Fashion Shows on TV are for men and women the first time equally interesting and beneficial.
Men are more visual so they need to see flesh, magazines are out of date, and that they still exist is a miracle since they leave tracks. No matter what men do not want to be encountered with a female partner who is seeing them getting exiting without them, worse case is the dad but worst is the mom, especially if she continuously tries to tell you after this incident, that it is normal and its okay if you release your little baby’s. To the moms around the world, please just ignore it and never mention it again, any word about it makes it more embarrassing and worse for your son. If you love your Son, do not talk about his masturbation practices! Today the Internet or TV is much more common and cheaper and it also leaves no tracks (Clear your Browser!!!). Same counts for women who also look into these technical possibilities here and then. Men do it more often because they have more pressure by Mother Nature, but also this pressure can be reduced cause of work stress and with the Age. For women medical science figured out that most women stop their sexual appetite while their menopause, but some even get more hungry for the intercourse and even after so many times of marriage the love comes back into their life as if they have not been married at all.
But why do we do that? Not satisfied, no training partner? Some Scientist in the United States of America believes that it’s not a coincident that our hands are hanging just the right height to reach and touch our sexual organs. Nature wants us to masturbate, and its healthy, not just for the potency, also for brain, muscles of course and the prostate. Proven facts are that nature installed this in our instinct to release the stress from us, it makes us all more relaxed after doing it and also teaches us more about our body and what we like to train it first alone, before we talk to our partner and tell him or her how we like it more and to enjoy more together. While via the modern world it is easier to access the right supporting masturbation websites instead of buying magazines or waiting till late night for the suitable TV Program is the masturbation stress from yesterday, but a new problem arises with these new Technical helpers like smartphones and Laptops, the ability to communicate with the real partner. Couples rather use the Internet and Smartphone to fulfil their phantasy then using their real partner, if you are lucky they communicate in a restaurant via text message over their smartphone while checking their Emails. This is really sad, until the Smartphone can also exchange the real partner in all facilities.
So going the wanking path is okay, in Hong Kong there is even a real Street for that and it’s written like Wan King Path, you don’t believe me go and see it for yourself or look it up in the Internet as cheaper alternative!
To have sex by yourself alone is natural and nothing to be worry about, but please also note that too often can also cause skin irritation and a tennis arm, and muscle pain.
Especially women should be gentle since the Area down there is very sensitive and an inflammation on the Clitoris can be really painful while walking.
For men and women masturbation got also a positive factor, after you are done you are for sure satisfied and don’t have to talk or care for anyone else or need to have breakfast with this person. A good phrase for everyone who does not want to have after the sexual intercourse a conversation or Breakfast, please wear your clothes right after the out coming and say: “I am sorry, I have an early Breakfast meeting.”
You see to have a real partner for sexual intercourse can be full of duties, so if you do not want to go this path, go the Wan King Path by yourself!
So hands down!

Plastic Surgery

Plastic Surgery is a gift to Human Kind, originally established to help victims of accidents to release them from depressions and physical wounds and disfigurements to be able to participate on the normal live of the society with confidents again, which is still the biggest part of plastic surgery and much older than you may believe, but since the modern plastic surgery we talk more about the cosmetic Surgery. Cosmetic Surgery can do so much more, it helps us that Magazines and TV Shows are only filled with beautiful looking people, and everyone can be beautiful. What for a wonderful world. Okay, I agree, not all people on TV or magazines are looking presentable, but theoretically they could, if they wanted and spend some money for plastic Surgery then on Books or education. Thanks to cosmetic surgery, the stars we love to admire on TV or on shows can be exchanged with another person without notice, so no crying and heartbroken Fans anymore, even the Artistic Skills are same Level in the most cases.
Women get themselves bigger boobs (Breast augmentations), some even smaller (reduction mammoplasty) cause of Back pain, a straighter nose or a snub nose (Rhinoplasty), getting the cheeks higher (Cheek augmentation) to be more female, getting the butt in shape (Buttock augmentation) and what other body part is not main stream suitable.
Men love these women, because they are so perfect, everywhere something to see and touch, but careful please, even if Plastic Surgery builds much more reliable, don’t press to hard! Some women who believe that bigger boobs or cosmetic surgery is all not real and don’t understand why men like that so much haven’t understand men yet. A man does not make a test (Torch Test) or ask for certificates if it comes to an attractive Female, that’s why men also been reported not noticing to kiss an operated ex male, especially with alcohol influence in Thailand often to see and of course other places, because these tall Lady Boys are sometimes better done than any female, so be aware if a too good and sexy dressed lady approaches you to aggressively in a Bar, especially if this usually not very often happen to you, then it could be a Lady Boy and you will maybe regret it later, or show the pictures proudly to your friends, depending on you, and all of you sitting around the pictures of the Lady Boy and saying, I wish a real woman would look like that. But what it tells us is that for a man it’s real enough, if you can see and touch it.
Ladies, a man does not need big Boobs or a sexy squeaking butt of a woman, one of it it’s enough, as longest a man has something to hold on to. So safe the money, and only do 50% of the cosmetic surgery and buy yourself some new shoes, handbags or dress! Anyway you will buy all together suitable to each item, since women buy always shoes there they have nothing suitable to wear with. What does it matter if at the end the usual practice between men and women is to go mouth, boobs, Vagina, sleeping, Smart phone or even leaving? The man will most likely not realize that the shoes are matching to your dress, Hairstyle and earrings, if you want that a man notice your Shoes, you need to hit him with them. Because the eyes of the man don’t look further down then your buttocks, since there is no further need, because there is nothing interesting for him more down the Legs, except he has a foot fetish. Legs are mainly just a barrier for men.
If men decide to go for plastic Surgery, they mainly go for phallus enlargements (Phalloplasty), Liposuction, Abdominoplasty (Removing the One Pack to a Flat six-pack), Body Hair Removal or becoming women. Depending on their likes and what their thinking is closer to females or males. Also men use Breast implants, to have a more muscular looking chest; anyway training would take too long and would maybe never lead to the result cause of lack of persistence.
We Humans are actually lazy butts.
But there is a side effect with cosmetic surgery, because if you find a beautiful man or woman, and think, yes, I am such a lucky guy or girl, the happiness can change if the Child you have together, somehow does not look at all like your Husband or Wife, that can be leading to many issues in normal life situations, if you want to pick up your child from somewhere or are in school and say that you are the dad or the mummy, they may will have doubts that you really are that in the start, and later maybe start to gossip behind your back. But since you are a strong and super confident person, that’s why you did all the cosmetic surgery, it will be no problem for you to handle that, right? But who knows if you would get the man or woman of your dreams with your real Face and Body, and if you don’t tell the other, is that not a relationship builds on a Lie, if you never show your real face, that is already a tuff thing without having a plastic surgery done.

Vegetarian

There a positive and negative thinking Vegetarian, the positive vegetarian gets up every day and say: “I love animals, and will today not eat any again!” The negative Vegetarian says: “I hate vegetables, and I will exterminate as much as possible today.”
There are also differences about female and male vegetarian, the female vegetarian will bring to work or school some well-prepared sticks of carrots, cucumber and radish. The Male vegetarian will eat all the side dishes in the canteen, like Potatoes and peas and Carrots with Tofu Sausages.
But why do some people believe that vegetarian live healthier, especially the vegetarian themselves? Why did nature make us an omnivorous animal, if we end up eating only plants and beans? It will be a shocking fact for some vegetarian, but also for meat lover, that we need to eat both, meat and vegetable, because we are made for it and our body needs it. Our developed brain could grow, because of the starting of eating meat, since it is easier to gain access to protein which is needed for the development of the Brain. The Human race started scientifically proven 3.3 Million years ago to eat meat and developed bigger brains, which are still needed sometimes even today, even having all these devices who take over the memory and the thinking.
Three point three million years ago with other words, our Ancestors gave up living mainly on vegetables and berries and focused more on meat, which help them grow a bigger brain. So thanks of the change of their eating habits we can write and read this today and our invented technology can annoy us frequently, without a developed brain and meat, we would not even realize that, if this is an achievement or not everyone can answer by him or herself.
We need the proteins from the meat, to produce energy for our body and the muscle and cell building; we need to eat a lot more mushrooms, nuts and cereal to gain the same amount of protein, as we gain from eating meat. Vegetarian can keep up with meat eater or people who eat vegetable and meat in balance, which is the evolutional way, because only by the ability to eat everything, we could adapt to all kind of Regions in the world. Some Animals are a good example, since if their environment with food supply changes, they would distinct, because you cannot tell the Seadog, sorry fish is out, please eat from now on Penguins, but we Humans could eat a penguin if needed, or just feel like having a penguin today. That is adaption of the environment in a blink of an eye, that is why we are so many today and are nearly everywhere on this planet. Because we can eat and digest nearly everything to fill our stomach, the proof gives many worldwide active Food Chains for this.
To make clear at this point, yes we also can just be vegetarian if we need to for moral, ethical or social reasons. I personally respect that, if someone decides for moral and ethical reasons not to eat Meat, but not for social reasons, like some also do, so that you have to buy extra for these people some Tofu Sausages when you invite them for the Barbecue. But the worse is, you invite friends to Dinner home and they bring their new boy or girlfriend, and then this new boy or girlfriend tells you they cannot eat the potatoes even, because they came too close to the dead oxidized sliced Animal on the plate. One of the Moments in your life you want to get over fast, while you leave your anger on the vegetables on the cutting board, imagine the head of the person sitting in the dining room, who forced you after preparation of a nice Dinner to prepare for him or her an not planned extra dish, since you want to be good tolerant Host. Is it too much to warn in advance, if you are a vegetarian or have some Food Allergy to inform the Host and Cook, if you are privately invited for Dinner or other gatherings with food involved?
I believe these people just need attention, to be special treated.
In our modern world we have serious problems because of the wrong nutrition, resulting of our way of living, working and eating, which leaded to the modern diseases and allergies today, since we sit in the office and move lesser and differently, so our need of nutrition has changed and we need to adapt our eating habits. But we eat too much of one source and at the same time too less of another source, which creates an unbalance. There are different believes and approaches how to eat well balanced to satisfy the needs of our body and lifestyle and cultural environment. Nothing is really proven, only that we have to be an omnivorous Human animal.
To life healthy in our food ways connected world, there we can eat food from around the world in the so called industrial Countries for small money, and the food production is also industrialized, is a challenge, since we don’t hunt the food down personally or plug it ourselves of the ground we know.
We have no choice than to believe and trust in the honest Food Producing Industry, knowing that vegetables are been infested of pesticide and other chemicals and meat is full of antibiotics and sedatives.
Who still gets mad and upset about that just eats to much vegetable.
I also would like to destroy some believe that vegetarian live longer than Meat eater. The Surveys have been done with vegetarian, vegan and moderate vegetarian (who eats also sometimes fish and meat), which is in my eyes a very moderate kind of vegetarian, have been come to the Result that the differences are very little and means with other words, something which we would not have been able to realize without this scientifically survey on 1,904 people over a timeline of twenty one years, that who lives healthy lives longer, no matter if he is a vegetarian, vegan, moderate Vegetarian or a Meat Terminator.
A surprising Result to all of us, so just make sure you get all the nutrition you need from the Food Source of your choice and get happy with it and enjoy it. Forcing a Steak or a Salad leaf into you with a disgusting face makes you not healthier.

Ejaculatio Praecox or Men Fast Sex

This Chapter in Latin is about why men come too fast while having Sex, or in medical Terms Coitus Interruptus. First of all, a man can have an orgasm in three to five minutes, and this is normal. Of course men love to brag how long they can do it, but yes it can be longer and much longer than this, but this depends on different factors, like what kind of woman. No, of course not only, but the woman is a key factor in this, if she makes the wrong move, she should not complain at all!
But there are some serious Illnesses, in medicine we differentiate the Ejaculatio Preacox in prior and secondary.
The Prior appears already with the first sexual experiences of a man, so with other words in his puberty. Symptoms are that he cannot control to come while masturbating or while having sex with a partner, so he comes too fast. Some Scientist in the Netherlands gave Test couples a Stopwatch, or better say gave the woman the Stopwatch. You can imagine that this gives a man less pressure to perform well. So the Result was that, men with Ejaculatio Praecox came after one minute and eighty percent of the men came after thirty seconds. Maybe a bit fast, but time is relative as Albert Einstein already proved, so it’s not the matter what number is standing on the Stop watch, it’s about how long it felt.
For men with the start of forty years, they might have problems to get their Phallus fully hard, so that they need to stimulate the Phallus more, which leads to a faster ejaculation. Cause of all these issues a man can get depressive, because he thinks that he is not a real man, since he cannot satisfy his Partner and that leads to more pressure and worsens the Problem.
Most men who have this Problem try to cure themselves and try all kind of things to come not that fast like, thinking of something else, which makes the Partner uncomfortable, if you look bored around, moving in and out without looking at her. The response is clear, to your problem you get even more from the so sensitive woman: “Seems like your mind is somewhere else, maybe with someone else. You don’t love me anymore. I am not attractive anymore.” And she is crying or shouting at you. You should talk open with her about your Issue and, since women love to be understanding and sometimes want to see a man helpless, you will maybe get what you need, no talking and thinking of something else makes it worse, than rather come faster than losing for both of you the fun in having sexual intercourse.
You can try together breathing techniques like take a deep slow breath in and slowly out, that will reduce your stress and you sex live. That also guarantees that you will not come too fast, more not at all. Sexual Intercourse is nothing to think or time to meditate, just to feel!
So what will help in case of the secondary Case to use maybe Viagra or other Pill which includes the active substance Sildenafil citrate, which mainly is being bought from China? But ask your Doctor if you can use it without Problem, since it also got some Side effects, having a hard Phallus for hours can be a real problem, especially taking to early or if you have to go just to the Restroom, it’s not easy to handle a hard Phallus without messing up the bathroom and then clean with this hard thing the bathroom. All of a sudden you realize that there is a reason, why he is most of a time, what a surprise, and soft and dangling around, if he wasn’t, men would not be able to walk properly. That’s the next side effect, don’t go out after taking it or call the Room Service, you might could get arrested, of course depending on the Country you live in.
Other Effects are bloating which is also not great and could spoil the atmosphere if it all of a sudden smells like on train Toilette, if you have this Problem, always do it in a public Toilette to cover these events, also brings maybe some more excitement into your live.
Viagra also could cause Headaches and Tunnel vision, which is while having sexual intercourse positive and keeps you focused without distraction on what matters to you.
Instead of going for pills, you can also first try to train yourself again, while taking more time while you masturbate. Enjoy yourself and plan it well, put the Tissue Box next to you, turn on a Candle Light and massage yourself gently, don’t watch any Movie or if you are old Style masturbator, no Magazines or Pictures. Just close your eyes and feel, listen to your Body.
I should not watch these meditation DVD’s anymore, has a bad affect.
To change while having sexual intercourse the position can help, but also can reduce the feeling for both, you have to find the right position for both of you.
You have to train your Phallus, and please listen now carefully Ladies to your Surprise it is the Brain, which controls the Phallus of a man, not as always said the other way around. That is way you have to teach your brain again, when to come and when not, because via experiences the nerves change and memorize routine actions. So the cause for coming super-fast is cause of the switching errors in the vegetative nervous system and the Parasymphatikus makes sure that the Level of excitement gets higher and higher, if the highest Level reached the Symphatikus closes the Bladder sphincter and opens the sphincter of the urethra, so the Orgasm comes out and five hundred million Sperms Cells break free. So all this having nothing to do with the woman who is lying there, so if he says he comes so fast, because you are so hot, it’s wrong, even with a ugly woman he takes same time, if he does not come at all, or not even getting an erection, maybe you are too ugly. In this case the question is what did you give him, that he came with you?
So to overcome your Coitus Interruptus, you need to train how you can enjoy with mind and Phallus, to reach your Personal Goal 6 minutes or 10 minutes that’s already more than enough, don’t pleasure the women too much, or they get used to it, so take your Time. Men without Partner can only train with restrictions, so be gentle and nice to your Phallus, he is the only one you have.
One more sentence to the prior Case of Ejaculatio Praecox; medical science does not know much yet about it, but agreed to it that it is a bio psycho social phenomenon. I think that is not arguable.
After all the facts and ejaculation help and only focusing on the men’s problems, while the Ladies again will giggle and say typical men with their small issues. Firstly it’s not a small Issue and size is relative and changes from the point of View, secondly if a man would make fun like that of the orgasm problems of women, you would hang him right away for that and put Viagra underneath so that the pole does not break. At third point, a man got in ninety-nine percent an orgasm while having sexual interaction, no matter with who, while you Ladies……..
Anyway, let’s have a look at the Ladies and help them with their small Issues!

What is Love finally explained

Today we chose our Partner cause of love at least that is the ideal we believe in. That was not always like that, since we just have this romantic image of love and partnership just since the 18th century, before we had little to say who we will make love too and when, because other, so called relatives who wanted the best for us choose the partner we are allowed to marry, but somehow it was not always just for the good for us, it was in many cases in the favor of our relatives. Before some female activist claims that it was so against Women all these arranged marriages, than I would like to point out that not only women suffered, also the men, because they also not always got what they wanted. In unhappy marriages cheating were very common but to be caught doing this could be very bad for the woman, yes okay, women had it a bit more badly at that time.
Why did it still work out at that time, because from our perspective it is totally wrong, cultures that still having arranged marriages are for us ancient and not fitting in our so developed and enlightened world? But it still works. Why I say that, because it is scientifically proofed, Love comes with many contacts and together experienced positive Events, also personal and cultural experience have their impact before we love someone of course, but the first thing we need are again the pheromones which tell us if the suitable DNA for us.
But of course the outlook is important, women should have full lips (Face) and a symmetric Figure, these attributes would promise strong and healthy offspring, as well a high Level of sex hormones.
Men should be reliable with a good social economical standing, since this is important for the rearing. You can see here that all the issues of the Wish list of a woman today are missing, since nature here again just focus on the important things, and socks in a corner, shaving, being faithful, good looking, can cook and cleans the dishes after meal are not essential for the survival of the Species. Nature leaves that to the individual couple to use energy on these Topics and continues focusing on the important stuff.
But before getting to my Theory of why arranged marriages still work, lets first have a look at the different kind of Love we should differentiate; the love between mother and child and the romantic love.
We look first on the romantic love as we call it, which in most cases have nothing to do with romance as you will see, sorry Ladies, Science is very straight forward.
To understand my theory you have to first know how love comes to us and where love actually is happening, in our Head.
What happens when we fall in love is a numerous of neurotransmitter moving in our Body. We all know about testosterone and estrogen, but we miss the other ones who are the cause to get there, till it’s getting physical and desperate.
We meet someone in a club, the first thing we notice are his or her dancing skill and Form of the Body, we go closer for a proper check up and start to smell the other person like dogs do as well, to figure out the other one, in some cases quite exactly like Dogs, in Dance Clubs as an example, since you have to come closer in a rhythmic moving way, and to communicate verbally you need to come super close to understand or act you understand what the other person says to you, mostly the answer comes with a smile or a turning around by the other person, depending on the interest and suitable smell, since via these loud music it makes it possible to come close to the other Gender to take a deep breath of the Pheromones. So that the other person turns away or comes closer, does not have anything to do with what you said. You could just say: “Hi!” and the effect would be the same, maybe also better than trying to say something smart or special, just “Hi” is plain and good for the start. The reason why the other side maybe agrees is just your smell outlook and estimated Social economic Status if you are a man, and if you are a woman and approached the guy just comes closer, cause of your full Lips and symmetric Figure and maybe the fact that you came to him and look like an easy target for him, but that is not scientifically proven.
While you two are busy trying to look like professional Dancer your Thalamus is filtering in your prefrontal Cortex, which feelings should be saved on the hard drive. For who is not knowing what I am talking about, this is in the Brain or also called Cerebrum. But it moves on, the Hypothalamus send chemical Messengers out, while the limbic system is responsible for the first feelings of familiarity and the falling in love.
While you start slightly touching each other and smile like horses with Overbite, other Neurotransmitter guide dopamine and others forward, cause of the teasing of the nervous system, caused by the touching of the reachable skin of each other.
If you two continue the body will send out Adrenalin and you get nervous and maybe get wet at your hands and other body parts. It also makes your Heart beat faster, which you believe is a special sign for that is now the moment you waited for. Thanks to Serotine you will have the Happy feeling and to now get to the final stage we all are waiting for, the body needs to raise the Level of estrogens and testosterones so that we getting desperate to get something into the other or get something in. But it been noted that in some cases everything is over before that happens, and the man feels bad and the woman says it’s okay, but actually is frustrated, and regrets that she left with the wrong guy. The chances of a second chance are as low as finding Water in the Desert, except you can manage it in the same night right after, to make up for it. Then it would be taken as a super excitement fast shot in History. If not, wear back your clothes, shake hands with each other and leave the place of disappointment!
In Case all went fine and he or she does not leave right after the Mission is completed for him or her with the Sentence: “I have an early Breakfast meeting.” You can have with him or her Breakfast, and if you still see each other after that again and again, Nor Adrenalin helps you to get in this Blind fresh Lover Feeling that everything is possible and you can do it. It keeps the mood up and it’s stimulating the Hormones of the Hypothalamus, which sends out the faithful Hormones Oxytocin and Vasopressin.
These two are also the base of the Mother Child love and Oxytocin is also in the mother milk, which makes both happy and comfortable while the little one is sucking at her Nipples. Before some men get the wrong impression, if you do the same to a woman, it might has the opposite reaction if not done right and she is not yet stimulated enough, except she is having Breast Milk, than enjoy Drinking!
As you can see, love is all about stimulating the right bio chemical reactions, nothing to do with romance, but what romance actually means is to stimulate with actions, words and care these chemical processes.
That’s why also an arranged marriage can still work after sometime, because if we are forced to be with someone so close the whole time out of anti-feelings arising pro feelings if the other one just does some small things for us, and out of this more grows. At the end with physical interaction and more familiarity love will step up and out of an arranged marriage a marriage with the same love than other marriages appears.
Of course it will disappear like in every other Marriage if one side or both stop stimulating their Hormones.
Also said, who keeps his hand in a relationship to long just with him or herself, should not wonder if the partner is gone with someone else!

Bra’s and Hair Saloons

Not everything is how it seems. This sentence must have come from a man who opens a bra for the first time. Bras have changed since their invention a lot, they have been in Spike Form and later they became more round and also unpredictable. Women can hide so much behind them and change their appearance towards the men. All men know this, you meet a wonderful beautiful lady and all goes smooth and the first time you have the permission to open the bra, you face following issues:
You cannot open it at the back and you do not have the Index-thumb Technic skill. Reason could be that either you are not experienced enough, to nervous or excited, careful with this one, or it’s a sports bra or worst case a front opener which makes men look like idiots trying to open it with two hands, while she is watching you focusing desperately to open it.
If you could manage it you wonder what happened, where is the rest? It looked like more behind it. Welcome to the world of Wonder bra, always a surprise. The Problem is you cannot sue the Bra Company for wrongly advertising as well not the lady who wearing it or asking for an exchange.
So you have two choices at that moment, bear with it and continue, or leave and look for a new surprise with new effort which maybe leads to the same Result or Worse. Most men are quite convenient friendly and stay with what they have.
But why are men so after what is hidden in or behind the Bra of a woman? Actually it is for Baby’s, but I agree men and babies both love to play with them. From Biological perspective women do not need these big Breasts, especially if they have no fresh offspring to take care of. That is also the reason, why if a woman wants to lose weight the body will lose first at parts where a fat reserve is not necessary, so the breasts loose first, funny part is that women don’t want to lose the volume at that point as well. But I am sorry Ladies that is nature.
But why do human female wear a bra, just for creating illusions for the men? Since we started to walk on two legs big breast caused back pain for women, so they started to put them in clothing to support and throw the time and cultures we have different position holding systems for the female breasts. Since around hundred years the bra is existing and gave the more efficient and comfortable support for the women to release them from Back pain. Actually science till now is arguing why some women have big breasts and some have smaller. It is for sure that the size of the female breast got nothing to do with the capability of a women to feed the offspring. But why the breasts of a women are nicely rounded got a reason. Since we humans have a more flat face, the breasts need to be more rounded up to avoid that the baby will not suffocate while drinking. Big breasts of women show that these women produce more estrogen, but that also means that these women produce lesser testosterone which would stimulate to more sexual activity. Maybe that’s why smaller breast are more in favor for some men.
The reason why men are so attracted of the female breasts is evolution. We all know that our Ancestors are Apes and that Apes attract with their butt. Some even in a very shining red colour. Now you might say that we are also attracted to the Butt of the other Gender, men and women equally, but why breasts as well is the butt not enough, anyway the main reproduction process happens down in that Area. Because we humans started to walk up straight on two legs, so all of a sudden the butt of the other Gender was not anymore in our face while we walking on four excrements behind each other. So Nature had to come up with something new to attract which is easier to access for the eyes of a man. So Nature decided to grow the female breasts and in case a man would not see them nature kept the butt as secondary attraction point.
Thanks to nature there is much more variety, but why in versus versa nature did not give men a similar second attraction point for the women is maybe only explainable that at that time there was no equal rights for women yet established.
But after a man has accomplished to find the right partner he is happy with, new dangers are in the air who can give him unexpected surprises. If the Girlfriend, Wife or Lifetime partner of a man says that she will go to the Hair salon and will only trim the hair a bit, the man is in fear. Because Hair Stylist or Hair Designer how some of them call themselves today, misunderstand that creativity and good looking do not have to be two different things They use their influence and the lack of self- confidence of their Victim to try out new “Styles” which are the latest fashion in Places they have never been. While a man changes his Hair Style only if nature forces him to do so, women do that every time they feel like, without any need. If the woman comes back with her new Hair Style the man hardly can recognize his former Partner and in worst cases, does not even open the Door for this Stranger or opens it and says: ’Sorry, but my Girlfriend or Wife can come back anytime, just leave your number and I call you!” If you are clever you can act as it was meant as a joke, but to get around that you think she does not look like her anymore, is even more difficult and you have to give a lot of foot massages to make up for that again.
In other cases, fifty percent of men do not even realize that their lady changed anything or has been to the Hair salon, which makes the women annoyed since she spend hours and hundreds of Dollars to look like that, just for him and in rare cases also for herself. Same applies for Nails and facials or other pseudo cosmetic treatments.
An Advise to the women here; if you plan to do an radical change of your Hairstyle or other body parts, please consult first your boyfriend, Husband or Lifetime partner before taking any action, this would prevent embarrassing situations for both sides, and gives the man time to prepare mentally for what is coming. Anyway no harm for you, since most of men will give in or tell you just do what you want, its fine for me, as longest they don’t have to pay the Bill for it and can continue drinking their beer and watch TV. I am aware that women might say that it’s their body and they can do what they want with it and how they feel like, but women on the other hand like to comment the style, dress and appearance or their man, so it’s just equally fair that in a relationship mayor changes in the outer appearance have to be discussed.
An Advise for men at this point here, please avoid sentences like that to your Lady: “For that you paid so much?” And be prepared that she will never tell you how much it really has cost for this creation. Just tell her, no matter what: “You look amazing.” So she is happy and you have your peace. Anyway you can’t change anything anymore, so why making more trouble.

 

 

The start of Civilization

What made us change from wandering around the world following the food resources where we could see everyday something new and exciting, to the one who is sticking to one place, but not to one partner (in some cases of course the opposite). Did we become lazy? Why did the hunter put aside his wonderful adventurous life to exchange his bow and arrow for a pecker? The answer is: barley.
Archaeologists found in old Mesopotamia rest of barley fields who could be found in all the first settlements of that Mankind. So why did they plant barley, since everyone knows who been in one of these eccentric organic shops for a better me and world that barley is not a great basic for bread or regarded as enjoyable to eat.
Barley is not a good ingredient to make eatable stuff, but very good for drinkable stuff so called alcohol. So the basic of our civilization is alcohol. So we settled down because we could not get up anymore? Makes totally sense for me, alcohol gave the basic for socializing and the consequences of it, reproduction and trouble.
This has not change till today. Alcohol is a drug which is accepted in all circles of society in different Forms. As a Smoker you always have to excuse yourself, if you go outside for a cigarette, a feeling of guilt is there for every Smoker in our world since smoker became the outlaws of our new modern society. No one smokes even in the cigarette advertisements anymore in some cases they are not even allowed to advertise for their product, the warning Labels on cigarettes are very pessimistic and bigger than the brand Label. Please, do not get me wrong here, smoking is unhealthy and many studies show that, but more to that later. What I mean to say is, how often have you been seeing someone because of inhalation of smoke that this Person was hugging a street lamp or kissing a chair or peeing in front of the Restaurants Window while being watched by the guests with a surprised facial expression while the releasing persons just looks with a relieved and relax face into the window and the faces back without being aware of his or her doing. Yes, okay a drunken smoker. But just smoking does not make you lose control of your capabilities to speak, eat, talk, walk and other physical and mentally abilities. Not counting in the sportive activities for the moment.
Smoking just makes you physically sick and the people around you.
If you do not smoke, people have understanding for that and will not ask you for the reason, why you don’t smoke. It is a different Topic if it’s about drinking alcohol. If you say you don’t drink alcohol, three thoughts come up immediately: Either you are an EX-alcoholic or Pregnant or something is wrong with you. If you are an Ex-alcoholic or you are pregnant you are excused. If none of these two reasons are suitable for you, than you have a problem, you are an outsider with a strong will, because there are maybe some people in the round who will always try to seduce you and tell you, that you can drink one at least, which means once accepting one drink, the next one follows with the argument that you cannot stand on one leg long as well. But if you have a strong mind, you will stand firm and not drink a bit, which speaks for you mind control, and as longer the evening goes and as more the others around you drank, the more you feel to be an outsider. While the others in your round understand each other better and better and socialize with every Glass, you cannot follow their conversation anymore.
Alcohol brings us in most of the cases closer together, in good or bad, and with the influence of alcohol we easily overview irritations, we would have seen without alcohol in the opposite of us. That also explains, why in some cases some men and women have sexual intercourse, which can only been explained like that.
Without alcohol the civilization we know today would not been exist. Without alcohol the mass of diversity creations by human reproduction would not be possible to imagine. While imagination one of the key factors here is. How often have we seen people, there we asked ourselves who did that and why? If I may bring a small discourse here, that is also the reason for having more dimmed light in the bedroom than in the other rooms, to leave space for imaginations. We all learn as children already, things are not always as they seem or we think they are, and further in live we always been sadly reminded of that.
Alcohol and Sex with the other opposite Gender or todays whatever one prefers like, same sex, furniture, cars, magazine, animals or also common with oneself. Imagination seems to be endless if it comes to this Topic. If it comes in choosing the right sexual intercourse partner we go back to our basic instinct. We smell the other Gender like an animal does.
What we smell is the sweat of the other opposite. This firstly may not seem very attractive and I would just like to bring in another fact that fresh sweat does not smell. What we smell are the pheromones of the other opposite. To smell these pheromones we have the nasal organ which is located in our nose and is a small little bulb not bigger than a pimple than we are fourteen, just internal instead of external.
This little thing can smell if the other one is carrying the suitable DNA to mix with ours. This would be the person we should reproduce with. We all know this feeling if we pass by someone, who we cannot stand to smell at all, it’s quite certain, that we will not have any sexual intercourse with this person, even alcohol reach there its limits in some cases. The Doses of alcohol needed for that, must be in a narcotic level to create even the lowest chance for this.
The reason for this hidden ability of us is quite simple. It’s the old fight against mankind’s oldest enemy: Bacteria’s, because if the other sexual intercourse partner has the suitable DNA to mix with ours, we would create a stronger and resistant new generation against our old enemy the bacteria.
So if you are next time in the bus or in the subway, close your eyes, and go there your nose leads you to, the person with the best smell is the right one to reproduce with. If you land by some incident at the same sex, check inside yourself one more time what you really want!
We know now that sweat carries pheromones, and this is the way to have sexual intercourse with someone, someone because it does not mean that this is a good person to live with or good in bed or wherever you practice, it’s just about healthy and strong offspring. So why do we wash and spray all kind of things on our body not to smell like ourselves? In the old middle ages it was unhealthy to wash yourself and as dirtier you are as more attractive you will be to the other Gender. This is in parts till today like that, just not from the hygienic perspective.
In the middle age of our time, the people only had a bath maybe every three months and only the rich and wealthy had actually a bathroom which was just a wooden bath tub with some linen over it to not get some splinter in your buttocks. It was regarded as more healthy and resistant to diseases if you do not wash yourself that often. There was also the time that via the introduction of underwear, the washing was reduced to the hands, feet and face, since the dirt and sweat could be remove by changing the underwear. These believes are still alive in some areas today. This was the best time for reproduction of humankind, so many pheromones in the air. Perfume and make up was used by the rich and wealthy to cover the crust as it does in many cases today as well.
Today it would not be enough to just change the underwear daily to have the chance to reproduce; this is equally correct for men and women. It’s not necessary to spray all kind of perfumes most people are already happy if the opposite washed him or herself. If we talk today about that we like it dirty, it’s not always meant that we enjoy partners with dirty fingernails and with a body texture which reminds you of the landscape of a swamp, we more enjoy the playing with fantasies which we do not dare to speak out but always want to do. We want to go to the edge of sexual ability’s.
The Problem, everyone has different fantasies and that makes it complicated to realize them. Today we wash ourselves daily or at least before we meet other people we like or want that they like us. Interesting is also to know what is actually in perfume, pheromones from Animals. In Moshes as an example is the anal liquid of the moshes Ochs.
Let me summarize this, we are ashamed to smell like humans and believe that we are more attractive to the other Gender if we smell like a Ochs out of the ass? That would actually explain why no woman gets distracted by that, compare to the promises in the advertisements, but maybe a cow would! So watch out when you are next time on the farm in a cow stall!
No matter what perfume you are using, you would never cover or fool the nasal organ. So what to do, to get your DNA distributed in a club or pub full of smells, mixed with alcohol influence? They believe is common that alcohol makes women easier going for a sexual intercourse. Men mostly believe that, cause if men drink more and more they are getting more relaxed and their vision gets a bit blurry which the brain balance out with additional positive add on, who are just like Photoshop, not the original image. For women it’s different, they are still with every glass certain that this guy is not the Top of the Pops, but as more it’s after 12:00 am, she doesn’t bother. So if you are not by 4:00 am with a female in bed or other places you prefer, take what you can get!
Human reproduction is not different from the reproduction we know from animals, the purpose of having sex is not fun, it’s a duty for the preservation of mankind.
Yes, to make it short. Thanks to alcohol and pheromones we all exist. So next time you drink an alcoholic liquid, take a swallow and are super thankful that you exist!
Alcohol is a fascinating Topic, because Humans under alcohol show so many faces and actions, no one can even imagine. Maybe that’s why Nostradamus could predict future events as many believe, since it’s proven that Nostradamus took drugs to open his vision. How else can you explain the weird words in his predictions of the future which could be made fit for nearly all things what would happen since they have not been quite exactly with time, Date or Names, but we still discuss about Nostradamus visions as he really knew something. This is an usual thing with humans under Alcohol influence. They also talk and do things without knowing sometimes the Name or the Time and Date they have met someone the night before. Sometimes this short Memory of the night before is also a protection. The Mind makes us believe that the night before was not that bad and deletes all negative experiences or make them blurry or a bit pink. For men its mostly like that, they meet next day or later and talk about what for a headache they had and that this hot woman in that dress she really was gorgeous and wild, yes we could have had her. What they cut out is that they been totally drunk, could not pronounce a word correctly, but felt so confident and great. They also deleted that the “hot woman” was a transvestite, but even he was not interested to go with these drunken guys who anyway would not be able to get into anywhere at that night.
It’s true; the eyesight of men under alcohol rapidly reduces. Our eyes anyway are lying all the time. They are closing ten times a minute for a second, but still send a picture to the cerebrum (Brain) that they saw everything the whole time. No matter what Nose or ears say, the Eyes have the last say and the Brain believes them more than the other senses. Another fact is that we do only see actually with a one millimeter big objective at the end of our Eyeball, which makes it more understanding that if this vision is already so small, how will it be under alcohol influence with a tunnel vision, so it’s no wonder that men see with their eyes more and more beautiful women then there actually are. The ears say, she really got a very deep voice for a woman, and the hands say the vagina seems a bit different but the eyes, what the hell it looks good, go ahead!
For woman it’s different. Alcohol does not change their accurateness about knowing who is Top to reproduce and who is not. Why then women go away with a guy who is definitely not belonging to the Top of his Gender and Species?
Alcohol does as mentioned not changed the awareness of the women and the Result of her careful scan. But alcohol and time helps the not proper and fit men, because as more it’s after 12 pm the more the women does not care about it. So it comes to before believed impossible unifications between two not proper and fitting people. The next Morning will be for one participated side a wake up with horror, for the other one a big win he will tell his friends till his death, but if a man made a mistake like that and took a ugly woman along, because there is no not fitting woman for man, since it always fits somehow, he will just say thank you and leaves as soon as possible and try’s to forget about it, and he will. Men can control their Cerebrum and the memory in there very well, if it is necessary.
But it’s important to know something here, if you want to use alcohol as support to overcome missing attributes, you need to know a few things as well.
• Don’t make the women so drunk that she feels sick, because if you under this condition still can get her to sexual intercourse with you, it might end with a sea sick person on your Bed and an experience you would like to forget after all kind of Body liquids mixing on you and your Bed sheet.
• Don’t make them drunk in a hurry, women know anyway why you are nice to them, but they don’t like to be pushed or that you think you need to make them drunk to go to bed with you.
• Never ask them in the Bar or public loudly openly if they would go with you to have sexual practice. They generally refuse it, since they are the decision makers. Not you. You have to approach them, but to have sexual intercourse; it’s their call, not yours. If she is willing to go for a walk with you or eat something small somewhere, it’s mostly a go. So be patient, kiss her before you drop her off the taxi, bus or any other transportation. If she kisses you, you can ask her if she wants to come with you, if she says; “but only sleeping, okay?!” You just say yes. If you don’t get lucky at her or your place, I am sorry, but no one can help you anymore.