Not everything is how it seems. This sentence must have come from a man who opens a bra for the first time. Bras have changed since their invention a lot, they have been in Spike Form and later they became more round and also unpredictable. Women can hide so much behind them and change their appearance towards the men. All men know this, you meet a wonderful beautiful lady and all goes smooth and the first time you have the permission to open the bra, you face following issues:
You cannot open it at the back and you do not have the Index-thumb Technic skill. Reason could be that either you are not experienced enough, to nervous or excited, careful with this one, or it’s a sports bra or worst case a front opener which makes men look like idiots trying to open it with two hands, while she is watching you focusing desperately to open it.
If you could manage it you wonder what happened, where is the rest? It looked like more behind it. Welcome to the world of Wonder bra, always a surprise. The Problem is you cannot sue the Bra Company for wrongly advertising as well not the lady who wearing it or asking for an exchange.
So you have two choices at that moment, bear with it and continue, or leave and look for a new surprise with new effort which maybe leads to the same Result or Worse. Most men are quite convenient friendly and stay with what they have.
But why are men so after what is hidden in or behind the Bra of a woman? Actually it is for Baby’s, but I agree men and babies both love to play with them. From Biological perspective women do not need these big Breasts, especially if they have no fresh offspring to take care of. That is also the reason, why if a woman wants to lose weight the body will lose first at parts where a fat reserve is not necessary, so the breasts loose first, funny part is that women don’t want to lose the volume at that point as well. But I am sorry Ladies that is nature.
But why do human female wear a bra, just for creating illusions for the men? Since we started to walk on two legs big breast caused back pain for women, so they started to put them in clothing to support and throw the time and cultures we have different position holding systems for the female breasts. Since around hundred years the bra is existing and gave the more efficient and comfortable support for the women to release them from Back pain. Actually science till now is arguing why some women have big breasts and some have smaller. It is for sure that the size of the female breast got nothing to do with the capability of a women to feed the offspring. But why the breasts of a women are nicely rounded got a reason. Since we humans have a more flat face, the breasts need to be more rounded up to avoid that the baby will not suffocate while drinking. Big breasts of women show that these women produce more estrogen, but that also means that these women produce lesser testosterone which would stimulate to more sexual activity. Maybe that’s why smaller breast are more in favor for some men.
The reason why men are so attracted of the female breasts is evolution. We all know that our Ancestors are Apes and that Apes attract with their butt. Some even in a very shining red colour. Now you might say that we are also attracted to the Butt of the other Gender, men and women equally, but why breasts as well is the butt not enough, anyway the main reproduction process happens down in that Area. Because we humans started to walk up straight on two legs, so all of a sudden the butt of the other Gender was not anymore in our face while we walking on four excrements behind each other. So Nature had to come up with something new to attract which is easier to access for the eyes of a man. So Nature decided to grow the female breasts and in case a man would not see them nature kept the butt as secondary attraction point.
Thanks to nature there is much more variety, but why in versus versa nature did not give men a similar second attraction point for the women is maybe only explainable that at that time there was no equal rights for women yet established.
But after a man has accomplished to find the right partner he is happy with, new dangers are in the air who can give him unexpected surprises. If the Girlfriend, Wife or Lifetime partner of a man says that she will go to the Hair salon and will only trim the hair a bit, the man is in fear. Because Hair Stylist or Hair Designer how some of them call themselves today, misunderstand that creativity and good looking do not have to be two different things They use their influence and the lack of self- confidence of their Victim to try out new “Styles” which are the latest fashion in Places they have never been. While a man changes his Hair Style only if nature forces him to do so, women do that every time they feel like, without any need. If the woman comes back with her new Hair Style the man hardly can recognize his former Partner and in worst cases, does not even open the Door for this Stranger or opens it and says: ’Sorry, but my Girlfriend or Wife can come back anytime, just leave your number and I call you!” If you are clever you can act as it was meant as a joke, but to get around that you think she does not look like her anymore, is even more difficult and you have to give a lot of foot massages to make up for that again.
In other cases, fifty percent of men do not even realize that their lady changed anything or has been to the Hair salon, which makes the women annoyed since she spend hours and hundreds of Dollars to look like that, just for him and in rare cases also for herself. Same applies for Nails and facials or other pseudo cosmetic treatments.
An Advise to the women here; if you plan to do an radical change of your Hairstyle or other body parts, please consult first your boyfriend, Husband or Lifetime partner before taking any action, this would prevent embarrassing situations for both sides, and gives the man time to prepare mentally for what is coming. Anyway no harm for you, since most of men will give in or tell you just do what you want, its fine for me, as longest they don’t have to pay the Bill for it and can continue drinking their beer and watch TV. I am aware that women might say that it’s their body and they can do what they want with it and how they feel like, but women on the other hand like to comment the style, dress and appearance or their man, so it’s just equally fair that in a relationship mayor changes in the outer appearance have to be discussed.
An Advise for men at this point here, please avoid sentences like that to your Lady: “For that you paid so much?” And be prepared that she will never tell you how much it really has cost for this creation. Just tell her, no matter what: “You look amazing.” So she is happy and you have your peace. Anyway you can’t change anything anymore, so why making more trouble.